September was a time for a couple of considerable Life Changes. The biggest one was the departure of my son for college in Washington, DC. I was a Mr. Mom to my son, so his departure was emotional for me, and a life passage for the both of us. Though I've been a long-time proponent of independence and striking out on one's own, when you experience the absence of someone you love dearly, someone you have raised and have had great fun with--well, you get a different perspective, and start thinking how natural it is for families to live under one roof or at least in close proximity. And then, if you've had only one child, you also think if it wouldn't have been more natural and healthy to have an extra one or two. Maybe a dozen to make up a sports team. The reality would be, of course, that such a situation would prove very costly and that any goals one might have outside of raising and supporting a family would probably vanish.
Anyway, here's a toast to my son's new adventures in a new life. I know I was eager for the same things when I was in my late teens, and he should enjoy life to the fullest. Youth cannot be, should not be, wasted.
